To marry someone is one of the biggest and most important decisions a woman has to make in her life. The person you choose will be the one you have to wake up next to, eat next to, breath, and simply live for the rest of your life.
No one should make this decision lightly, because you never know with whom you will end up with if you don’t analyze that person thoroughly.
Imagine being married to a guy who thinks you are not worthy of wonderful things, does not like to be seen with you and thinks of you as nothing more than his wife. Isn’t it like the worst dream ever?
Mind you, judging people for doing bad, immoral things is justified.
So take some time out before you decide to marry a guy, even if you have dated him for a long time, and go through these 5 habits. If he has them, or most of them, reject him and shut the case close because once you read these habits, you will realize that the only thing you need to do with this guy is either get him jailed or be miles away from him.
If you aren’t careful enough, someone might fool you with their charm and nice words and you will end up with the wrong person.
He Does Not Like Kids
Not liking kids means a lack of zest for life and empathy. Only people who take themselves very serious don’t like children. And how can you have a child with someone who does not like one?
He Is Not Keeping His World
If he does not show up when he says that he will and instead he spends hours drinking with friends, there is a reason for you to worry.
Promises obviously do not mean anything to this person and with lack of communication you just cannot build a solid relationship.
He Is Not Lisetening What You Are Saying
When you go to him with a problem that you need help with, he does not listen or pay attention.
If he thinks that his problems matter more than yours, then this person will never give you the attention you need.
A good relationship requires understanding, helping and listening to each other, and if you do not have this then maybe it is time to leave.
He Constantly Flirts With Other Girls
If you constantly catch him texting with other girls or even chatting with girls when you are around he will probably end up cheating on you.
If he is truly in love and committed to you he would not be doing that and his attention would be yours.
Constantly Competing With You
He never admits that he is wrong and he is continuously fighting. Winning with this kind of person is almost impossible. This person has the need to be above you and not your equal. And what is a relationship without supporting, cherisher and growing up together?
The idea of spending your whole life with a guy who is not open-minded sounds like a nightmare. You don’t want to be with someone for the rest of your life who restraints you from doing all the normal things just because of his fear of things going wrong or his mistrust on you.
That kind of negativity can ruin your life and make you regret marrying him. It is better to dump such a man at once instead of later regretting it when he displays his narrow-mindedness and makes your life hell.