Married men who cheat on their wives are not the kind of men women want to be with.
Married men rarely leave their wives, they rarely want more from their mistress than just the fun that comes along with it, and they are very good at what they do. Married men who cheat are commonly serial cheaters. You are not the first, you will not be the last, and he is not in love with you.
There are subtle, insidious ways in which a married man who cheats on a regular basis can seduce a smart woman.
In the beginning, these guys are often friendly, charming, and non-threatening. They might start out making idle conversation and some of them will openly discuss their wives and family seemingly with the pride of a happily married man. Generally, whether you’re a single woman or a woman in a relationship, you won’t think too much of this kind of casual chit chat.
Quite often, this kind of interaction happens in the workplace, but it can also happen in other settings.
Typically, most married men who are serial cheaters begin to groom their intended target by showering them with compliments, acting as a shoulder to lean on, or even going so far as to bring them gifts.
Eventually, they’ll find a way to get your phone number, stalk you online, or find some other means to communicate with you on a regular basis.
Most of the time, it’s not important to this kind of guy if the woman is married, in a relationship, or single. There are, however, married men who are looking to aggressively control just one woman as their mistress and will choose a single woman so they can isolate her more easily from family and friends.
Most Married Men Want it All
They want their picture-perfect family at home, but they want to have a good time when they’re not at home. It’s not enough to have it all. It’s not enough to have a job that’s good, a wife that’s beautiful, kids that love him. It’s never enough with men like this, which is why they tend to leave their mistresses as soon as they get what they want and it begins to feel like work. It’s never enough, and he’s always looking for more.
Many Married Cheaters Have More than One Mistress
He might not be with both of you at the same time, but he might already have another flirtation going on with another woman you don’t know about. He’s playing both of you so he always has someone to turn to. It’s likely men like this are highly insecure and unable to focus on anything other than feeling better about himself. He doesn’t have the self-confidence to be a good man. He must always have someone interested in him.
They’re Often Controlling
It’s all right for him to be with other people when he’s married, but it’s rarely all right for their mistresses to be with anyone else. Men who cheat often want their mistresses to sit down and wait for them to come calling. They cannot have a life of their own even though he has one of his own.
Not all married men cheat, and not all married men who cheat do it repeatedly. Most do, but the simple fact remains married men who cheat are working with insecurity, boredom, or even immaturity. Do yourself a favor and walk away from any married man who turns on the charm with you in a way that’s not appropriate.